And others who think cheating isn't a big deal in general... <br> <br> <br> <br>There is truth in the phrase "once a cheater, always a cheater" <br> <br> <br>Those who find it possible to cheat once, will *NEVER* find it not possible to cheat. Because what makes them able to cheat is something deeply internal that has to do with your whole personality make-up, and people really don't change drastically enough to change that. <br> <br> <br>Given this. If you ever actually convince yourself that you love a female enough to get married, you have to ask yourself these questions.... <br> <br>"Is it better for her to know I'm a cheater, and that the odds are strongly in favor of me cheating again?, or is it better that I let her find someone who is capable of being faithful, like she deserves?" <br> <br> <br> <br>In my opinion, it is impossible for a cheater to truly love someone that they marry. If they truly love someone, they will not put them through being cheated on. <br> <br>Just so you know, If you ever get married, it's because you love yourself, not because you love her, so don't be surprised if your marriage turns to shit.