> If you have the desire and the opportunity. Cheating is a choice, and just like any other choice, depends on those two things. <br> <br>Cheating is not some disease. The problem in this "alcoholism is a disease" society we live in is that people can't admit they make bad decisions. You're not a victim to your personality. If you make the choice to not cheat, you won't cheat. If being faithful is a higher priority to you than getting laid, you won't cheat. <br> <br>Its really that simple. <br> <br>That being said, Yhorian isn't married and I don't think you can extend one to the other. What Yhorian did was dishonest, but I wouldn't equate it with cheating on someone whom you swore an oath publically to. Its not something to be proud of but then again, we all do things we aren't proud of so whom are we to judge?