I love when people tell my characters about my cabals procedures and how they should be when one, their character has never been inside my cabal, two, there is private information they don't have access too in that regard, yet are chanting it at me like I don't already know.
FFS people, the game is you living the individual life of a character. Not to get PK GOD, not to be gear hoarder 7582094024. It is to being a journey, experience a journey, to an ultimately defined destination of death. Gear comes and goes, allies come and go, enemies come and goes. The real fun is when you have a decent balance of things where you aren't always overwhelmed and that's why Perma's fuck the game so hard with a low playerbase because they tilt the game too much.
Fucking cry less and play more and account for your own fun. If it's no fun to you because another demands an item of yours than quit. I'd rather play with people who enjoy the game than bitter cunts. OMG you died, omg you got looted, get back up or give up, your choice, stop crying about how unfair you are because this game is suppose to simulate it's own 'realism' if only the players portray it and why RP is enforced.