I think you should control your temper in the game. You die, and Mizfara and I both specially make the decision not to touch a single item on your corpse. That is a huge privilege, and you continue to presume people will fight you head-on and just let you kill them, and have your little citizens full loot them. In fact, I did. And guess what? Your full loot doesn't do a thing to me. This is a game, I play this to have fun, and you seem to be very negatively affected by the game. I can only feel sorry for you.
I am giving you advice here. Clear your thoughts, and be less bitter. If you want to full loot like Fatfrumos, go ahead. But why spam people with tells and hit your own Empire's guards and do all these things? You obviously know how to play. I seriously advise you to consider deleting and quitting CF for a while so that you can deal with your emotional problems and temper here. I don't loot much from my enemies for a reason, because there's no need for me to do it. All it does is take that guy out for three to four hours gathering equipment.
Now advice on tactics: If you want to be reckless, go ahead. Don't expect people to impale themselves in front of you. A giant warrior is no match against a dark elf emperor dagger warrior striking/edges/four legacies/etc, so he is going to hit you when it really counts. You seem to have this attitude that if people don't die to you, they should be full looted/everything and spammed with tells. Chill out. Maybe some players really are better than you. I am not suggesting I am, but I can think of many other people who are better.
I don't know about you, but you have issues. Clear them by talking to your good pal, or maybe even a professional or a doctor. I wish you luck in CF, and hope you'll feel better and not so sore over a game.