I'm just flabbergasted by your attempt to defend an obviously retarded rp excuse to powergame being a wuss.
In my limited interaction with your character, I didn't have a problem. It seemed like a fine character.
However, "freedom of speech", "play the way you want", etc?
Your logic is acceptable in an ideal situation. In this situation, it's rather ridiculous, unrealistic, and pretty much demented. I don't see how you can take one point, pull all your resources into that one point, and hope for a somewhat logical result. In fact, it almost seems you're a) an immature kid (I thought the exact same you did when I was in middle school, b) a hippy, c) just trying to justify her way of playing, or d) all of the above. Not to insult you, but hey, according to you, freedom of speech right?
"Play the way you want." Fine. By all means. If it doesn't bother you that people will generally think you're a big pussy and call you out on it quite often, that people will gun for you and in fact I imagine some would create characters just to target you and full sac you (hasn't happened yet, but potential), play like that.
What especially irks me with her "style" of playing is that she is a character well looked upon by the general crowd. And apparently the outlanders love her. Since she has such a pull with them, they'll act similarly. Hence the massive gangs and whatnot.