I juggle a lot of things irl. And after all these years have found the perspective needed to not have to quit cf altogether to get things done irl (compared to the days when I skipped my high school grad exams to mud) Considering the sacrifices a lot of people have made for the game in terms of rl (I used to know imms who screwed up their degrees just busy administering the game), I try to keep things pleasant on the forum and in game. Which is evident from my first two almost apologetic posts on the subject of tribunal aps wherein I called for a discussion. A majority of the playerbase responded with some thought. There are players who have shaped my cfing experience and I keep graviating towards them ic. I seek them out because I can make them out and choose to run/fight with them. Players like you, cerunnir and some others named in one of my posts above. I just ignore the rest, until they force themselves upon me in which case I dip into my case of shinies and sometimes hand out jaw-dropping fights.
To me CF is still Llohuir praying from the locked room in hamsah challenging the imms, or astiklar telling me never to run when the bear charges or gherian on his ass spanking spree, or me with a local room echo after redeeming my scion fire giant into the light.
But well some cocks just cant have constructive discussions.