Looking through things, I think I had too much crap overlapping from previous attemps to get it to work. I had two famcheck folders, one with just two lines and another with all the commands I would expect to see, so I'm guessing the wrong one was enabling and running when it was supposed to. I wiped out famcheck (both) and famspy and repasted things in and will try it again soon.
I'm hoping to get competent enough in this to made another addition. I'd like to try and make two lists when it runs, one for everyone in pk, and another for just the people that are hiders, so that I can have whof for everyone, and another that is more cut down like whoh that is only cycling through the thieves and assassins for a familiar that can see them...would likely work well for a coyote and change it to see rangers and assassins.
I know it would take another list, like FamHiddenList, but could it be part of the same regex?