both of you had some rp but it was pretty equal
plus, you both had prior beef. you're not painting an accurate picture of what went into it. you weren't some innocent elf walking down eastern trying to get to Darsylon
was 2 rbw mace berserkers alternating cranial
other best i had which was a surprise was a staff spec with double vuln weapon using misdirect. warrior or champ paladin can hit unspeaks against an unprotected mummy with pugil, and misdirect was doing oblits/annihilates
why not go human str pole/h2h instead? take fires and ward or something else
but hey man, if you wanna go half-elf int by all means, it could be a lot of fun