Actively cheating being something like "I am going to use this list of secret information for my gain"
Passive cheating being something like "I want to see why this list is banned" and then having the information from the list help one of your characters out in some way.
That distinction sucks because it wasn't very distinct, but I wanted a brief example of what I mea
If you saw the desc and did not like it, that is an in-game factor for not wanting to interact with the character or simply not liking them at all. That is fine and warranted.
Nothing about that makes me happy, and I think it sucks you have to go through that.
I was just pointing out that it's hard to tell when something negative is going on in your life because you frequently act like a douche.