Posted by Ekirhal on September 10, 2000 at 20:57:23:
In Reply to: Mmmm posted by Imbrogno(VIP) on September 10, 2000 at 17:02:39:
> and a penchant for shameless self-promotion as well. And away we go....
No. I just like you to know what you're dealing with, Hun.
> I don't have a problem with "kinky" sex, I've been known to do some things that only porn stars should be involved in,
I like you already!
>what I do question is how healthy it is to express these emotions over vast amounts of space with somebody that could or COULD NOT be of the age to consent to such activities.
This is a valid point, Sweetie. I look at this like I do questionable material on TV. IF someone is underage then it is up the the parents to monitor that kind of stuff. If they don't and this 'underage' person gets away with this or that then so be it. I was a kid once too and loved to get away with a thing or two.
>I bet you'd feel stellar knowing you're corrupting some 14 year old who's at the other end staring at the screen, jiggly his nuggets, and splooging all over his keyboard.
Stellar? That is sick. This is right up there with big, fat hairy guys. When I'm in the fields I'M IN THE FIELDS. Whatever I decide to roleplay I expect anyone roleplaying with me is a willing participant. And as I understand it 14 year old males 'jiggly their nuggets' frequently. If he's not doing it to something on his computer screen he'd be doing it to somethin' else. So I'm told...
> You talk about missionary sex as if it's the bottom of the barrel.
I like missionary sex. It's not my favorite but I do like it.
>This might lead one with a psychological background to believe that you're afraid of intimacy and the rejection that sometimes comes with it(afraid to look into the eyes of the one you're having sex with maybe?)
I've been in relationships where there is more intimacy than sex. No I'm not afraid of intimacy or rejection. I'm really quite 'normal' according to societies standards.
>Perhaps you were molested at an early age and thus the idea of a perfectly normal exchange of love has been forever tainted
WAY WRONG
>leading to your enjoyment of the less socially accepted means of getting your jollies.
This is more information than I would give to any stranger but the odds of us meeting are next to nil. I'm 24 and getting my 'jollies' takes next to nothing. I haven't resorted to anything I'd call 'unacceptable' just yet.
>Of course, this is all a lot of assuming and conjecture.
Agreed
>What I DO know is that cybersex/mudsex toes the line of mental health and flails its arms violently as it loses its balance and prepares to fall into the abyss.
Again, I think this is opinion and would depend on the individual.
> Of course you could also be really into deep roleplay
THANK YOU! Right on the nose, Hun. Of coures, according to some I might really suck at roleplaying but I try...hard...and I really enjoy it.
>in which case I'd have to question whether you could somehow channel your energy into something more fruitful, like story-telling or some sort of quest.
You make it sound as though I rolled up the closest thing to a whore that I could and come to the fields for the sole purpose of mudfucking anything that might show up in a room description. Bzzrt! 98% of my time in Thera is roleplaying...without anything sexual involved.
>If I were an imm I'd keep you busy with quests or something JUST to keep you from befouling my mud with your creative juices(mmm double entendre*sp*).
I LOVE quests and exploring!
>I'm of course assuming that I'm resting comfortably among a majority of people who think you're a fruit-loop and that mudsex is at the detriment of the mud and all involved either willingly or unwillingly.
Again, opinion. Depends on the individual.
> I have pity for the people that unwillingly happen upon your deeds.
MY deeds? I'm not the plague. I like to think that what ever I do adds some 'flavor' to everyone's muding experience. I don't force anything on to anyone. But thank you for your concern.
> And for the record I'm 6'1", 155-160 lbs., an avid runner who runs 4-5 miles every other day, and who many believe is in excellent physical condition thank you very much.
And for the record I'm 5', 99 lbs., and I work out regularly. I KNOW I'm in good shape whether anyone recognizes it or not.
Also for the record I'm NOT SELF-PROMOTING. I wasn't even sure what that meant until I thought about it. I just really enjoy a good debate and Proud Blade and Imbrogno certainly provide that.
*curtsey*