Maybe, just maybe, if you play the game instead of conspiracy, investigations and scouting/spying you be allright.
Yeah. People keep ooc connections while playing the game. Why? Because they can.
Some imms play immpowered chars. Why? Because they can.
Sime imms have friends and those friends play immpowered chars. Why? You know the answer.
Heroism and Truth means anything just when it changes anything. You destroyed your char because something was itching inside you.
Kadavarn was allright.
But you decided to fight with grinders.
Now tell me please.
After this flashy self-destruction what will changed? Nothing. Actually - one thing.. I just deleted my lowbie assasssin who joined Empire. And never will attempt to join this cabal again.
You play a game that has certain rules like * ROLEPLAYING is required. etc
What is not written in those rules but exists.
In real life Immortals are the same humans as all we are. They have strengths, weaknesses, friends and enemies. Sometimes they are in good mood, sometimes in bad. They can be ill or healthy. They have priorities and MUD not the first. They have priorities and your email even more not the first. They will immcheat. They will immpower self and friends.
Because they only human after all (c)
You accept all this rules. If not - you punished. Even more. If not - you punish yourself.