Perspective

November 08, 2007 03:23AM
> That anyone who has ever cheated should just give up on love and happiness right now? That's like telling all first time criminal offenders not to bother ever getting jobs or educations because chances are they'll be back in prison and it would be unfair to their employers to trick them into thinking you could be a viable employee. <br>> <br>> I think the better advice/approach is to recognize that it happened and ask yourself why it happened. Then you can deal with any consequences that might arise as a result of either the act or the reason behind the act. Really, in most people's teens/twenties cheating happens and both parties move on, probably for the better. <br> <br>From the criminal's perspective it's best for them to acknowledge what they have done, rectify the causes, and move on with their life. From the potential employer's perspective it's best to assume they will continue their previous behavior because that is the most likely outcome. <br> <br>I think what you're trying to overcome in this discussion is that when someone has proven themselves to be an asshole by their actions I cease to concern myself with their feelings in regards to their asshole activities. You'll find this barrier difficult to overcome.
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Some advice to Yhorian specifically...

Odrirg 449 November 06, 2007 05:30AM

A bit of insight, mostly mental vomit

Yhorian 264 November 06, 2007 06:13AM

Jesus Christ.

Trilo 258 November 06, 2007 07:58AM

The hard and painful truth FTW n/t

Lokain 252 November 06, 2007 11:20AM

Sorry, but that's not the truth. You can always reinvent yourself.

Balrahd 273 November 06, 2007 08:15AM

I agree.

Death_Claw 289 November 06, 2007 12:51PM

Odrirg has little faith in humanity.

Scrimbul 279 November 06, 2007 02:01PM

Faith vs odds

Rade 277 November 06, 2007 04:39PM

Yeah, I think its just a matter of priorities.

Death_Claw 297 November 07, 2007 03:28AM

Dude

jegec 303 November 06, 2007 02:24PM

I think that sort of makes the point

Rade 257 November 06, 2007 04:09PM

What point?

jegec 306 November 07, 2007 07:18AM

Perspective

Rade 327 November 08, 2007 03:23AM

True

jegec 306 November 08, 2007 05:42AM

Worry about getting your first kiss before you worry about cheating~

Enbuergo 289 November 07, 2007 06:17AM

I'll put that on the to-do list

jegec 318 November 07, 2007 02:20PM

You just went way up in my book. I love that movie. nt

Devildogg7051 300 November 08, 2007 07:43AM

You're a shitty person if you cheat on someone, and someone Id punch in the face

nt Devildogg7051 261 November 06, 2007 07:00PM

Man, that attempt of psychoanalysis made me laughing :)

Dervish 366 November 06, 2007 09:43PM

Well, that was amazingly narrow minded. nt

Tolose 266 November 06, 2007 10:06PM

You're like the stupidest person in the universe nt

mc_no_u 272 November 07, 2007 11:56AM

We're pretty damn lucky we have you to judge our respective intellectual..

Istirith 357 November 08, 2007 03:54PM



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