I'm leveling up a mage, and because I don't actually tank for my groups I have got 75% parry etc. My question is how important is it for me to get these skills up higher? I don't know how to spam up defenses, and I'm low level (around level 20). I can't solo any mobs really.. And the thought of spending hours spamming is horrifying. Even worse though, I would not like to be completely gimp against warriors because I can't parry anything.