If any of these were me, sorry man. It's not ruining the fun on my end, I've just been deleting at the first PK death lately, they are mostly blow-off characters to waste time until something "bites"
My business was "all go no quit" for a few months ... as in sleeping in short shifts to stay on top of everything, then all off a sudden it went smooth and I have very little to do but still have the urge
to be doing something.... okay and I'm avoiding some stuff around the house. like re-doing the kitchen floor. Ugh! So I'm all about farting around with different things, ranking up a little, get pk'd
delete, rinse and repeat etc... I *WAS* doing it at the first death of any kind, but hell, that's too much even for me. :)

So if the guy you killed doesn't say anything and deletes, or gives a positive comment and deletes, assume it was me and then you don't have to feel like you ruined anyone's fun.
If it wasn't me, hang on to the illusion and feel good anyway!