November 03, 2015 08:46AM
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I'm not in the middle of an existential crisis (well, no more than the next person.)
I just needed to figure out some life shit.
My first words to this woman were "I don't have any actual problems."
I've been trying for years to convince my friends to do DMT with me, but they're all millennial girls and their generation missed the boat on the whole psychonaut thing, as far as I can tell.
But what I'm going to say is that there's a ton of value in just talking about shit and you don't have to experience ego-death to figure out that if you hate your job and your relationship, that you should figure out a way to extricate yourself.
I'm also hesitant to listen to you, because of the way you're presenting a Solution™ with such certainty that it sounds almost religious.
Next time, if I were you, I'd take a tack along the lines of "Hey, this helped me and there might be some value in checking it out," which is how I approach my cure-all* answer for people, because no one who's sitting on their ass all day wants to hear "Running ten miles every day will fix your life."
*I don't really think that running will "fix" everything, but it has helped me work on dedication, mindfulness, and gives me an excuse to beat myself up, and I think that most people would benefit from something like that.
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