Gank gank gank.

"The ones who don't well hell they try but it's really crushing the morale of the people wanting to play for fun against those who are like I can kill you real fucking quick cause I picked an overpowered combo and I just wanna kill everybody but not take any real chances. hell with raiding the Island the villagers don't even let theirselves get below bleeding wounds they flee out right when they start to lose a little bit of hp."

1) Is it really crushing the morale of others or yourself? Don't be so invested into the game. If you, get better, or go ganking.
2) If they flee out before they get before bleeding wounds, wouldn't that mean that when they get back into it most/all of the guardians have returned and they have to do everything all over again? I guess they'd be super bored for that to happen, since it's just slowly wittling down the guardians.

I'll address your issues with villagers. Have you played a villager before? It's extremely easy to take care of their weakness. Of course, that means prepping properly most of the time.

Weaknesses:
1) No healing (unless you're a defender)
2) No teleport
3) No recall
4) Supposedly parity (although with Thror coming back, it's less of an issue - at least, that's how it was with Ghrummin)
5) No head - death
6) Susceptible to ganks especially because of the first four.

Oh, and take it from someone who's played decently badass ragers in the past, if they're keeping their sets, people just aren't doing their jobs.

If you're ranting that bad, then I guess you don't know how to fight against them. Ever thought of, you know, learning how to pk instead of bitching?