Yeah the person in question, likely was an idiot and deserved every second of it. Doesn't make him a saint in any shape, way, or form.
And Nexus is a retarded cabal, it pretty much destroyed any last ditch ability to explore cool areas because when there is only 10-12 heroes on, and 2-3 of them are fighting for the other side, there's never enough to do something like an Inferno trip (and don't get me started on the balance changing halfway through a trip with Nexuns). As a Nexun you're pretty much stuck doing the grind of cabal wars, or do stuff solo. When the players on dictate what you can do, just "bleh".
Anyways, minor rant from an ex-CFer. It's probably an awesome cabal now and I'm talking out of my ass...