I have the best games when I play with my good mate, and we talk shit all game. We don't verbally attack people or pick on anyone, unless they start attacking someone else. Then we just lay into them.

It's almost as if griefing ragers has become half the fun. Key is though to keep your emotions outside the game, purposely acting like a retard or stupid smack talk just makes their responses all the more funny and less likely to affect you cause you're not being serious.