Usually my char fights imperials but Zevaduce seemed unusually open minded and friendly for an imperial. So we stayed on good terms. It's fresh to see a different kind of RP from an imperial. Hope you can get your RL stuff together and eventually get back to CF (and control the amount of time you play). Stepping back can sometimes definitely be a good idea, I have gotten out of control with CF before too and it had very bad effects on RL.