I understand your plight, sometimes the utter frustration in a pk situation kills me. I find myself yelling at my wife, scrolling back to the log (I no longer log because of this) and generally going to get a pack of smokes. All because I got tooled. Full loots burn, but my best advise is take into your soul what I have, if I'm going to fight I'll die.....and Loose everything. This rarely happens, but just being braced can help. Try yelling curse words really loud right when it happens, that helps me too. Cf is the crack we're all stuck on, hell I took about 4 years off, but the risks are rewards are what bring us back. Stick it out man, and learn to regear quick and good. Wait for that full looter and Tool him later...BUT don't full loot him. It's kinda like if someone robbed you at gun point would you do the same?