I appriciate the constructive responses, both here and on the gameplay board. Hopefully this incident opens some eyes on some of the things wrong with this game. Its a social game, people are gonna play it with friends, or theyre not gonna play.
At the end of the day, I'll make this very clear. I explore hell for the entertainment and excitement of it. I care little to nothing about the armor there except to see what the things I have never seen before do. And even then Im fine with someone else getting it. If they made the armor from hell crumble a couple hours after exiting, I would STILL only play cf for the excitement of hell trips. After 14 years, im not gonna see anything in pk that I havent seen before. I highly doubt it. Hell however, still interests me. I suppose that is my punishment for actually READING The Divine Comedy. If you have not read it, and you wish to know what hell is like. Read it...hell is pretty much a dupe of the book in so many ways. And reading it WILL help you understand the area a little better.
I still think what we did wasn't so bad, and i'm not going to apoligize for playing a game to have fun for me. That would be stupid. I didn't do the pk thing, and I explored with other people just as much as I did my friends. I was a healer, thats the cuts of being one.
So im just gonna continue my break for a while and see what happens. Will I play cf again ever? Probably, but not in the near future. Im fighting in october and I need to concentrate on me till then. If and when I do play cf again, I'll probably play a city ties thief again with no immortal just to relax. And you better believe I'll start leading hell groups again. I'll just make sure I send out a note to all every three days so EVERYONE in thera knows hell trips will be made, then I can go with whoever the fuck I want, because if EVERYONE in the game knows, I cant be organizing it ooc, can I?
Oh well. Sucks losing a great character over something like this. But at the end of the day, I did what I set out to do. I had the first gurgthock/satanist full empoweree, I made it to satan again, this time getting the mark, and I enjoyed the inferno with my friends. And nomatter how hard anyone tries, they cant take that from me :)
See you all in hell ;)