Wow Java, you have some issues bud. If you worry so much about impressing others, then I'm sorry for you. Not really. And no, I'm not going to judge someone by what they drink at a bar. I have a good friend who can't dirnk for shit and get's wasted off a couple shots. So, he drinks shots slowly if he does at all and doesn't shoot them. I drink beer a lot, but sometimes I like to have a white russian. Who fucking cares? I goto the bar in the same clothes I wear during the day. I'm a jeans an t-shirt type guy. That's what I wear. I'm not going to change that because I'm going out. If you feel you have to act different than the person you are to impress someone, then you have some self-esteem issues. Sure, on a first date you might dress up a little if you're going out to dinner or something. But that's dependent upon the situation. You aren't going to goto a funeral in flip flops, cut off shorts, and a wife beater. But you aren't dressing up or differently than normal to impress someone, you do it because the occasion calls for it. If you think any of this makes or doesn't make you a man, you're really dumb. This is all superficial bullshit and doesn't make anyone who they are.
The thing is, not everyone acts like you. Not everyone cares about the same things as you do. To lump everyone into one category is idiotic. You need to be a man and accept the fact not everybody is the same. Do what makes you happy and stop worrying about everybody else and you will be much better off.
P.S. Where did I say I was a body builder? Oh, I didn't you're ignorant and wrong again.
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