If you say it the right way, there's a way you can get what you want without pissing her off, or at least getting her to shut up about it and grumble while leaving you in peace.
Be sure to remind her that if you had/have a laptop, it doesn't change whether or not you're willing/able to pay attention to her during your 'unwinding time'.
It's an issue you're going to have to work out quick and early or it's quite quickly going to wreck your marriage obviously, and I'm not saying that because it means she's the enemy. You are likely going to have to get her to explain to you in guy terms i.e. plain english how she thinks of what you're doing, and then explain your perspective without openly telling her she's wrong (at least to start).
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 08/24/2009 12:14PM by Scrimbul.