First off. You don't ever need to use weapons that your class doesn't know. There is a high average weapon for every weapon type. I prefered the whip from the UnderDark. There are also items you can hold, speak a phrase, and huge damage is done. There are a few of these. One of my particular favourite. Prog gear is easily come by. Most people who hold are those trying to get rid of it. Throughout my Healer days, I've had DragonKind Amulets (worthless on healers), Lightning Embossed Rings, among other prog gear offered to me all the time.
As a Healer, there is no need to gear for any kind of saves. Which opens up more spots for damage, HP and prog. Its not hard. Infact, I'll do it again. Just to prove my point.